Gordon Ramsay’s Wife, Tana, Is Proof That Opposites Attract
Hell’s Kitchen host and master chef Gordon Ramsay is known for his demeaning criticism of competing chefs in the kitchen, his misogynistic comments, and his stern warnings to struggling restaurateurs on his show Kitchen Nightmares. He’s what you might call a bully when it comes to baking.
However, over the years, the media has shown a different side of Gordon. He’s been described as a likable, socially motivated person who’s great with children and a loving husband to his wife, Tana Ramsay.
Gordon met his wife, Tana, while she was dating his friend.
Cayetana (Tana) Elizabeth Hutcheson was born in Surrey, England, where she grew up on a farm and worked for her father’s business. She later went to school to study and train in the Montessori Method.
She worked as a teacher for a while before deciding to stay home with her children.
Tana and Gordon met in 1992. At the time, she was dating Gordon’s friend, a British chef named Tim. Out of respect for their relationship, Gordon waited until Tana was single before asking her out.
The couple’s dating lives revolved around different schedules: Gordon worked 16-hour days in the kitchen and Tana worked as a teacher. It wasn’t ideal, but they made it work; they wanted to be together.
They married four years later in 1996.
Gordon and Tana struggled to conceive.
Tana suffered from polycystic ovary syndrome, which made it difficult for her to conceive on her own. Tana admits that starting IVF made her feel like a failure, but her treatments proved effective.
She gave birth to her first daughter, Megan, in 1998. She underwent IVF again and gave birth to twins Jack and Holly 11 months later. In 2002, she gave birth to her daughter Matilda without IVF.
Tara had not planned to have a fifth child, but in 2016, she became pregnant again. Unfortunately, the pregnancy ended in a miscarriage at five months. But then, in 2019, Tana welcomed the couple’s son Oscar.
She is a strong woman and can take care of herself.
Many people may wonder what it is like to be married to someone who has stated that women are basically a hassle in the kitchen because they need maternity leave and time off to deal with “women’s issues”, but for Tana, that is not a problem.
Tana has been honest in her interviews that Gordon’s outdated patriarchal attitudes do not bother her. She also revealed how strict she was with her children — to the point that Gordon’s mother said something.
She also said that she didn’t need a devoted husband to make life work. In an interview with the Daily Mail, she said of her relationship, “I can manage and I always have.”
Tana has endured very public rumors about Gordon’s extramarital affairs.
In 2008, “professional lover” Sarah Symonds revealed in a book that she had an affair with Gordon for seven years while he was still married to Tana.
Although the claim affected their relationship in private, Tana did not let on that it had happened. Gordon denied the affair and Tana moved on.
Tana and Gordon’s fathers have a rocky relationship.
Tana’s father, Chris Hutcheson, is a businessman who funded Gordon’s first restaurant. After an argument with Gordon, Chris decided the best form of revenge was to hack his computer and reveal important financial information.
Along with Tana’s two brothers, Adam and Chris, Jr., Chris was arrested for computer hacking and conspiracy against Gordon. He was sentenced to six months in prison in 2011.
She has made her mark in the public eye.
Tana owns the All About the Girl beauty salon and spa in London. She has also appeared in her daughter’s reality TV series, Matilda and the Ramsay Bunch and Dancing on Ice in 2010.
She has received a lot of criticism for releasing the cookbook Tana Ramsay’s Family Kitchen. Many people say she is taking advantage of Gordon’s fame and she will tell you that you are not wrong.
However, she doesn’t really care. “I could wallow in it and worry about what people would say or I could just keep going,” she explains.
Ultimately, Tana is stronger than you think.
Being the wife of a “celebrity” may come with all the luxuries of fame, but it also has its downsides. Tana has had to deal with cameras, rumors, and doubts from people who disagree with Gordon.
The truth is, Tana is Gordon’s rival, and maybe even more so. Regardless of how the media decides to portray Gordon, Tana is the one who has to live with him, and she has chosen to stand by him all these years.