If you were a tween in the 2000s, when the Twilight saga gained popularity, you may not have realized a couple of things. Now, many fans are now entering their 20s and rewatching the film, they may have come to the realization that Edward (Robert Pattinson) didn’t have the best moments in his relationship with Bella (Kristen Stewart).
This is especially true since Jacob (Taylor Lautner) was in love with Bella and she couldn’t deny her feelings for him. Edward had it rough throughout the five films. Looking back at the film saga, let’s take into account the moments when Edward was the most vulnerable and was hurt in his relationship.
Edward’s Guilt Over James
Taking the first film into account, one may begin to realize just how horrible Edward feels for starting a relationship with Bella. He’s waited over 100 years to find someone to love, while his family already had life-long partners. As much as the dynamic of a vampire falling in love with a human makes for some intrigue, it comes with some hardships.
Bella’s Insistence To Become Immortal
By the end of the first film, Bella made it clear that she wanted to become an immortal vampire, like Edward. This becomes the main issue of conflict for the couple. It also hurts Edward the most when analyzed. Fans are aware that Edward has his internal battles with being a vampire and misses his humanity the most.
Bella Didn’t Want To Tell Jacob They Were Getting Married
Edward is old fashioned, due to the time period in which he was born. The only way he was willing to turn Bella was if she married him. This is a huge step in anyone’s relationship, especially for Bella and Edward. It’s safe to say that Edward was over the moon when she said yes.
Edward Breaks Up With Bella
As much as New Moon showcased Bella’s depressed state after Edward left, you have to take into account his feelings, as well. Looking back at every event that forced him to make his decision, you feel bad for him.
Honeymoon Bruises
Audiences knew that Edward wanted to wait until marriage to have any form of a sexual relationship with Bella. He was also hesitant because of the possibility of hurting her. Jacob said the same at their wedding, explaining that conjugal relations could possibly kill her.
Couldn’t Keep Bella Warm
Many would agree that a fun perk of being in a relationship is cuddling up to your significant other and basking in their warmth. You feel for Edward when he can’t do this simple thing for Bella. In Eclipse, it becomes more prominent when she is almost frozen to death before the newborn battle.
Bella’s Pregnancy
Bella’s pregnancy hit Edward hard and it showed. Not only was Edward worried when it was confirmed, but it only escalated as they witnessed the effect it had on her body. It was a rough patch in their relationship, as Edward felt guilty over being responsible, even if it was their child.
When Bella Almost Died
When Edward was tricked into believing Bella died, you felt his pain. Bella was his world and the idea of her being gone destroyed him, enough that he was willing to die by the Volturi. In Eclipse, he admitted to Jacob that the pain he felt was unfathomable and he wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
When Jacob Gave An Ultimatum
Some would agree that Jacob was a bit selfish in his pursuit of Bella’s love. The pinnacle moment was before the newborn battle in Eclipse when Jacob kept Bella warm. Jacob forces Edward to admit the truth – Bella has unrequited feelings for Jacob.
This only worsens when Edward admits that even if Bella chose Jacob, he would let it be to keep her happy. Edward even sadly admitted that Jacob would have been a better choice and her chance at a long human life.
Jacob Kisses Bella
After the heart to heart in the tent, fans could only imagine Edward’s pain when Bella asked Jacob to kiss her. This also came after Jacob overheard them talking about marriage. It was a hurtful moment for Edward, as he had no choice but to witness the truth Jacob told him prior.
It’s hard to see the love of your life willingly ask to be kissed by someone she also loves. All in all, Edward had it pretty rough in his relationship with Bella between her human life, Jacob, and any danger she brought to face.
